My eight-year-old daughter
said something to me the other day that really took me off guard.
“Mommy, I want to go
skydiving.”
I have to admit that my first
impulse was to tell her how unbelievably scary and dangerous it is to skydive.
And how people get hurt or even die. And how one of my closest friends lost her
husband in a skydiving accident. You’ve got to be kidding me if you think I’m
letting my baby girl skydive.
Seriously. Really.
Then I started to think about
it. How beautiful and wonderful it is that this little eight year old girl is
fearless and outgoing and amazing enough to even want to do something like
that. At eight.
Seriously. Really.
So instead of saying what I
really wanted to say, which was, “There is no way you are ever going to jump
out of a plane! The. End!” I told her how proud I was of her being so
courageous and how exciting it would be for her to do that. But yah, of course
I added, “And even though it’s very scary and Mommy wouldn’t do it, I think
it’s great you want to skydive, Sweetie.”
And then I started to think
about how I need to be more like her when it comes to my writing. You know…
fearless. I need to just grab a hold my story, clinch my teeth and jump. Of course, I don’t have to jump without my
parachute (which is the revision process that I’ll pull out eventually).
So in honor of us all jumping into the new year, I’d love
to know what makes you to “jump” into your writing process. What inspires you
to pick up the pen or paintbrush and dive into your story?
Happy New Year to everyone and I wish you all a productive 2013!
BookEnds Has Moved
9 years ago
The last time I was even close to your daughter's fearlessness I was seven... May she retain her can-do spirit.